Not Being In The Now or Senior Moment?
Yesterday was an odd day for me. I woke up dreading what I knew I would be facing. It was Parent/Teacher Conference day. I have a very intelligent and easy going child, so why would I dread meeting with her teacher?
I was aware that my daughter has taken a dislike to one of her teacher’s. This is actually the first time she has had this regarding any of her teachers in the US. This is the teacher’s assistant for her class and is the one teaching Algebra.
Part of the problem is that she is better at the subject than this teacher, and she’s just learning Algebra. This has caused her to lose respect for this teacher and she becomes impatient with him. She has told me some of the problems she has been having with him and of her less than appropriate behavior. Needless to say, we have been discussing this a lot.
I had talked to her teacher over the phone, expressing my concerns regarding my daughter and the teacher’s assistant, and asked him if he could get to the root of the problem. But the situation continued to deteriorate.
I finally told her that battles between teachers and students will generally end with the student losing, that sometimes you just have to put up with the situation or change classes. She doesn’t want to change to another classroom and I don’t want her to give up algebra. So she has been chilling out lately. But I was sure I was going to hear about it at the conference.
It actually went better than I thought it would. The teacher’s assistant wasn’t present during the conference and the problems my daughter was having with him was only discussed briefly after I brought it up.
So what does this have to do with being in the moment or having a senior moment? I ask for your patience, its coming.
After the conference with the teacher, we stopped at the vitamin store, then went to order a pizza to take home for dinner and proceeded home without any problems.
I should note here that I don’t always wear my eye glasses. When I’m out I carry them in my hand and put them on to read or to look at something more closely or when I’m driving.
So when I got out of the car, my glasses were in my hand and I went into the house, put the pizza on the counter, grabbed the vitamins, opened them and had my daughter take them. I then grabbed the cotton and the wrappers from the vitamin bottles and threw them into the garbage. When I did this, I heard an unexpected thud, but dismissed it.
We ate dinner and after cleaning up the kitchen, it was time to check my Entracard drops and do a few other things regarding my site. So I went to get my glasses and they were not where I thought I had left them. So I went to the dinning table and they were not there either. I spent at least half an hour trying to find my glasses before I gave up. I’m sitting, going over everything in my mind when I suddenly remembered the thud I had heard. Do you know where this is going now?
I pull out the garbage container, looked at it with disdain and started to riffle through it. Guess what I found. Yep, my eyeglasses. Apparently I still had them in my hand when I opened the vitamins and when I threw the cotton and wrappers away. Let’s all say “ewww.”
So is that a situation of not being in the now or is it a senior moment?


